Have you ever wondered too much??
Of course you have .Is there any human being on earth who doesn't wonder? who is not curious? who don't have questions ?Even humans with superhero power also wonder.Maybe you wonder on something really small like what to wear today? or something really big like why we live?whats the point of life?or maybe some life changing ones like should i leave my job ?or why i feel so miserable and a lot more.
Wondering is a beautiful emotion which in small amount is always healthy.It gives us question to search for.But it start taking over you completely when you start wondering too much .Why am i alive?Why i do this job?Why am i in love?It takes a troll on your life you start feeling disconnected from everything.Your happiness flew away. So what we do to calm ourselves we just feed the random answers that the world has made to our mind just to put a break on that wondering.for example when your mind wonder why am i doing engineering.A answer automatically move to your mind because engineers have good salary.This comes from the society around us and we stop our wondering right away after this.which is very harmful for us in long run.as it took away our authenticity.
But you cant even let your mind wonder .It isn't practical for an adult to always wonder.As it takes away his or her focus from other far more important things of life.So what should we do in such a situation .
First is acceptance .Accept that you don't have a answers right now.And its okay to not have some answers in life.Then consciously say it to yourself that it is alright that we don't have the answers now.We may get that answer in future.But for now the best action would be to let go of this question.And smile a bit while saying this.
Dude I just needed this. I was thinking about a guy over and over and now I am going to leave it. will see what comes
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